As per the article:

"But what if my container is ‘microwave-safe’?

Though various plastics are marked as microwave-safe—and plenty of plastic lobbyists have defended them as perfectly safe—the term is somewhat misleading. It’s simply referring to plastic types that won’t crack or melt when heated, not their chemical makeup. Supposedly microwave-safe products can still contain bisphenols, phthalates, and plenty of other potentially harmful ingredients."

This comment feels needlessly hostile.

When organizations mess up, why is their first response to the critique to say “Why didn’t you come to us first?” when they really mean “Why did you make this public so we actually have to do something?”

I get really frustrated with the response because it doesn’t come across as a company actually interested in improving, but just throwing accusations back and trying to beg off the responsibility of actually holding themselves accountable.

This feels like a bad faith argument. OP correctly identifies that users from instances other than Beehaw tend to be more likely to engage in argumentative and pedantic commentary, which you prove in your interactions so far.

I appreciate your work moderating and growing a community <3

I believe this troll is referring to the transexual and bisexual pride flags on OP’s banner. Best not to engage further.

Very true, I forgot about the doorbell cameras! Neighbors on FB will often post their camera footage when a “suspicious” (read: black or young) person drives by

I feel the more likely scenario is for public surveillance to reach a point where everyone outside their home (or near a window) is being recorded from multiple sources.

Just started my first playthrough recently, should be exciting to have even more stuff to discover!

Seconding this; Cruelty Squad is hitting that Deus Ex/Quake itch for me right now

Thank you for sharing your experience. Reading the replies it seems like most of us have experienced similar from Reddit, and I agree with ArtZuron’s comment “the more public an online space becomes […] [t]he loudest most obnoxious people ruin it”. I’m reminded of Alyaza’s post of how unchecked toxicity can rapidly poison a userbase and drive away positive interaction. MayonnaiseArch sums it up better than I can: “being abused and gaslit and molested in any single interaction really makes you act in a different way, you can’t be honest or open in that kind of environment”

If I’m drinking with friends I’ll go for a cider - Ciderboys make a peach-apple cider that I’m very fond of. For liquor I like Bulleit bourbon, especially the 10-year aged stuff.

Completely agree with this decision, and it actually comes as a bit of a relief; I saw a statistically significant number of lemmy.world users who admitted to being denied from Beehaw because they didn’t want to “write an essay” or aggressively disagreed with the disabled downvotes (something that I’ve grown to appreciate).

I’m expect that the large influx of disruptive users is from the reddit migration, and I’m hopeful that the majority of the users will either adapt to the culture we’re trying to build here, or find their own niches in other communities. As you noted in your post, and in my own experience moderating real life groups, allowing a disruptive influence in a safe space can have serious negative effects on group cohesion that can persist for a long time, if it doesn’t alter the culture outright.

Seconded!

Ayo, occasional user of lsd and grower of shrooms here

If they banned us you’d have to get rid of your top half, and you don’t want to make an ass of yourself :3

Squawk!

I don’t think there is anything they can do to get me back anymore. I have a lot of issues with the culture that exists on that site, and that’s not something that can be fixed by walking back the API stuff or removing a few problematic individuals.

I’m dealing with this myself, and as others have said as people exit education and enter the workforce, there’s often fewer opportunities to meet new people and develop friendships. In school you had multiple classes with all new people to get to know, in the workplace you’re usually working with the same dozen or so people. I personally also have a detached workplace persona that’s very different from me outside of work, and that barrier naturally makes it harder to make genuine connections.

Local events like farmers markets or board game nights at a local game store are great ways to meet new people, it just takes some proactive effort to find them, actually show up, and be open to conversation.

I personally migrated because I wanted to avoid the majority