• tetris11@lemmy.world
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    There is a certain level of arrogance with introverts in that they assume a lot of things about people without first engaging with them. I speak as one myself

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      Pattern recognition is very much in our DNA, it takes a lot of effort to put aside your own instincts.

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        5 days ago

        Yeah but the patterns that some of us train on might just be noise validated by our own biases

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      I agree. We really should stop making assumptions. But, it is a skill that must be practiced. Mindfulness helped me a lot.