I’d even be happy with there being a choice between “either release tools needed to unlock and run services necessary to function OR release all source code to public domain so someone else is able to fix and rebuild the software as necessary”

If I pay for something they shouldn’t be able to disable it

I think you read too far into things. Lesbian is the most common because a lot of men want to watch women without other men in the mix.

And I don’t believe LGBT as a whole is fetishized as much as just lesbian for that specific reason. It’s an easy one-term label that gets the “just women in the video” point across.