That info is public available on kbin (this post was federated from kbin.social).

On lemmy, I believe only the admins have access to this info by looking at the database itself.

Actually, hello.1@gmail will go to hello1@gmail.

The one you are thinking I believe is hello+1@gmail will go to hello@gmail

If you try to make another non nested comment (or reply directly to your original post) and it show up on beehaw, we can be sure that the federation is running and the comments (and nested comments) that involves the defederated instances are all completely banned from there.

EDIT: Catch42’s comment also didn’t show up there yet, so the federation seems to be is a big laggy.

EDIT2: And now Catch42’s commented showed up there, so the federation synced up and the comment thread that involved any user from defederated instances didn’t show up.

Just got your reply here on lemmy.world and only the top message seems to be on beehaw. My reply and your sandwiched reply both apparently didn’t show up there

Replying from lemmy.world to check :)

EDIT: Shortly after the post, it was sent to the original kbin instance.

After 8 minutes, my reply apparently didn’t make it to beehaw, so I assume all new comments from lemmy.world users, even on posts of third instances, are really banned on beehaw.