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  • Telling someone to change jobs and avoid dating is not the same thing as saying he delayed gratification. The ladder is just a quality of growing away from your childhood.

    My question was rhetorical. You still tried to answer my question by making up context just like your posts about OP. This is what I’m saying is pointless. There are more important things in life than retaining your childhood such as providing for yourself and others. I would guess in most cases, growing away from your childhood is done out of necessity. It’s a sacrifice of time people choose because of the consequences of the alternative but you say OP should have made different decisions to prioritize their childhood? Your criticisms are only valid for someone who sacrifices needlessly which doesn’t seem like a common thing.


  • OP looking back and yearning for their childhood does not mean they did anything wrong in their life path. Growing away from your childhood is very common.

    You have no idea if OP is proud of their path and is casually reminiscing or if they believe they should have done something different.

    All of your wikihow tier advice is a weirdly specific to a life that we know nothing about. OP has discipline to continually make the same decision to stay on their path instead of getting distracted by selfish instant gratification.













  • It’s like blaming an ethernet cable for giving your computer a virus.

    The designer of the virus is the asshole, and you would be the idiot who went to the website.

    You are right that mental pain is an exaggeration, but it’s the accumulation of insufferable interactions that make you hate retail. When 25% of people expect you to act for them, you feel like a puppet. YES the business demands this, but the customer invokes it. So don’t invoke it and let workers sigh relief when you decide not to try to “test” their company response. Is this really that complicated?



  • As if the cashier is trying to engage in a discussion of class. As if they aren’t paid to ask. Just say no and feel secure with your own reasons without having to justify yourself. It’s like when I worked at ace hardware in high school and every boomer would need to tell me how dumb it is to phase out incandescent light bulbs. Trying to preach to someone about your convictions against their will is so pointless and annoying.



  • SamboT@lemm.eetoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlDo you believe in God?
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    10 months ago

    We can’t know. And that’s fine.

    Whatever started the physical process that created us is pretty fucking crazy. I bet it’s a simulation.

    So many people in this thread were traumatized from church lol. God isn’t inherently a bad or stupid idea… just depends on how you define God.