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Cake day: March 18th, 2025

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  • I don’t think it means that silence will necessarily benefit you materially – rather that silence is something precious or valuable. Maybe consider the proverb’s relation to these similar ones:

    Still waters run deep.

    Better to close one’s mouth and be thought a fool, than open one’s mouth and prove it.

    The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things.

    The prudent keep their knowledge to themselves, but a fool’s heart blurts out folly.

    A wise old owl sat in an oak:
    The more he heard, the less he spoke.
    The less he spoke, the more he heard;
    Why aren’t we all like that wise old bird?







    1. Canada (I live here)
    2. USA (many many family/friend visits since I was a child; also lived there for ~6 years as an adult)
    3. England (one week in London, one week in the South Downs)
    4. Denmark (three weeks for a family visit)
    5. France (a weekend in Paris)
    6. Belgium (about 2-3 days in Bruges)
    7. The Netherlands (about 2-3 days in Delft)
    8. Germany (roughly 6 hours, driving from Belgium to Denmark)








  • My spouse and I were broke grad students with a baby on the way. We needed a car. Someone in our tiny town was selling a 1992 Accord for $1000 (this was in the early 2010s). We bought it and put in another $1000 to get it to run.

    The only problem? It was a stick shift. I didn’t know how to drive standard; at the time, my spouse didn’t drive at all. I tried to learn, but I was so nauseated from my pregnancy that I nearly puked every time the car lurched… which was often. I never did get the hang of it. Eventually we bought a newer automatic car and traded the Accord in for a whopping $250.

    These days we could weather a $2000 mistake without too many problems, but back then… yeah, that one hurt.