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Cake day: June 8th, 2023

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  • As someone who was involved in Greek life in college, it is sad that I am not surprised by this. The amount of times I heard “better dead than coed” as a half joke was just sad. And I was part of a coed fraternity that had active members who were women. They always complained when we had problem members who were women, using it as an excuse as to why we shouldn’t Be coed, but turned the other way when we had male members who were an actual detriment to the chapter.

    I don’t think Greek life is inherently a bad thing, as it really helped me come out of my shell during college, and I made some lifelong friends from it. It really needs a cultural shift though, because they still have some pretty dated ideas













  • God there were certain subs that were just painful to use, even when interesting posts made it to the front page. The one I remember in particular was a mom made her kids a really cool Asian/Tokyo inspired cardboard fort, and you could tell it was really well done and probably made that kids week. Instead of the comments being about how cool the fort was, people were demeaning her saying “ah she’s probably a stay at home mom because she has all this free time”. Good lord, people on Reddit were miserable and couldn’t let other people have fun



  • I don’t have any important data in my Linux I stand eon my pc, so I’m not really worried about losing data thankfully. I’m trying to find that Linux distro that feels comfortable for me. since I’m not planning on upgrading to windows 11, I have 2ish years to figure that out lol. I’m willing to give it a try though and see if I like it.

    Server wise I’m pretty comfortable with Linux since I use it on a regular basis there. I need to lock down which distro I use though since half of my VMs are Ubuntu, and the other half are fedora lol. Makes it hard to standardize anything



  • I haven’t used any arch based distos yet, so I haven’t had any experience with that yet. The main ones I’ve used have been apt and dnf from fedora, and honestly both are pretty slow. I feel like I’ve had more packages available by default on apt than I have with dnf.

    How is arch on a day to day basis? I’ve been curious about giving it a try, and I’m not too worried about it being technical, but I want something that is easy to maintain