• Vanth@reddthat.com
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    4 months ago

    I don’t often date people I don’t know at all these days, I’m more into finding people through networks of friends and IRL social activities. So a good first date for me relates to a thing we’ve got in common that led to good vibes to start with.

    Met through the friend group that goes to film festivals together and nerds out on cheesy horror flicks? Movie night is a good first date. That’s not going to be as good a date with the person I met through a sports club who to my knowledge isn’t particularly into movies.

    I don’t care for formal dates in early days. Dress up, go to dinner, no break from conversation; I find it to be high pressure.