• pinkdrunkenelephants@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    This is cheating, not polygamy. 🤦 No one involved with this wants polygamy. They all had an expectation of monogamy and broke it, only to benefit themselves. If they tried polygamy, it would only be one sided and break hearts as their only intention is to benefit themselves amd they no longer care about their original partners in the first place. Stop using cheating as a springboard for your toxic lifestyle choices.

      • Fushuan [he/him]@lemm.ee
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        1 year ago

        They might care in other ways but they don’t care enough not to cheat. It’s that simple.

        If you don’t talk about opening the relationship, you are breaking the trust, there’s no excuse around it.

      • I Cast Fist@programming.dev
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        1 year ago

        “Honey, I’ve been cheating on you because I really care about you. I’m doing this without your consent or knowledge for our good”

        Yeah, that sounds perfectly reasonable. /s

      • bitsplease@lemmy.ml
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        100% chance this guy/gal has cheated on their So at some point and used this exact reasoning to convince themselves it was OK lol