• Apytele@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    I’ve noticed people with this kind of vitriol about anyone, even genuinely horrible people, are all mostly trying to compensate for their own lack of self esteem in some way. They’re just trying to find someone they can think of as below them. Most people use pedos, which, while it often leads to less actual justice for victims, at least makes sense (people often let their vitriol interfere with legitimate investigations, and victims are often guilted into silence by truthfully being told people will likely hurt the abuser they’ve been groomed into loving). The people who actually are pedos just have to make shit up to have someone to feel better than.

    Source: while working forensic psychiatry I avoided looking up people’s charges so I wouldn’t have to know which people I had to provide care for were the pedos, but my coworkers would tell me eventually and it wound up like a bizarre blinded study of their personalities vs the non pedos.

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      5 months ago

      According to the news, he is neither a pedo nor a homosexual. Apparently he was arrested for soliciting sex services. I don’t see that he is worse than the minors who objectify and prostituting themselves in OF for 3.99 without the need for a pimp, just by falsifying their documents. My point of view is that one thing leads to another.

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        5 months ago

        My point of view is that one thing leads to another.

        Can’t tell if this means it’s normal to become a pimp and at this point I’m too afraid to ask.

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          He isn’t a pimp mate, what I’m saying it’s what do you expect people to do if there is market to do it, it’s the law of offer and demand basic stuff. Just the pimp instead of being someone physical it’s a multi millon corpo.

          The article didn’t mention anything about him being a pimp, it just say he asked for sexual services(full service)