Me, short answer no.

    • TheBananaKing@lemmy.world
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      6 months ago

      I have some sensory issues around crowd noise; she is very much not the hike-in-the-mountains type. Rather than one or other of us having to be miserable, we each do our own thing when they’d otherwise conflict. Easy fix :)

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        6 months ago

        Very excellent. My partner and I do some hobbies separately, but I couldn’t imagine throwing a party without him. (Given how few I’ve thrown, that would be a remarkable event for me.) Sensory issues absolutely make sense as a reason to avoid that, though.

        I love and respect the way people with different preferences make relationships work… Power to you both!