• mtset@beehaw.org
    4·
    2 years ago

    I’ve been thinking a lot about how polyamory plays into my queerness - I’m lucky enough to have significantly expanded my local chosen family since Pride in 2021, and over the last year our housing situation has gotten much more stable.

    I think that I’m almost more committed to polyamory than I am to bisexuality, as a label. I certainly face more problems as a polyamorous person than as a bi one.

    • Gaywallet (they/it)@beehaw.orgMEnglish
      3·
      2 years ago

      I’ve always found it weird the push back against looping polyamory under the queer umbrella. Yes, there are some cis straight poly folks out there, but if you’ve ever been poly you’d realize that they too get a lot of identity erasure, face stigma from talking about having multiple partners, etc. Obviously everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but if queer is supposed to represent non cisheteronormative behavior, I think its fair to call monogamy another kind of normative behavior and celebrate diversity in human attraction and relationships.

  • Butterbee (She/Her)@beehaw.org
    4·
    2 years ago

    I kind of want to check out my cities local pride events, but I also REALLY get overwhelmed by crowds, noise, and such. Also I don’t really have anyone to go with. So I might just celebrate and online. I’ll probably just buy a really trashy wlw book or two and read? I’ll be open to reading suggestions lol.

    • StringTheory@beehaw.org
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      2 years ago

      You might like hanging out on the sidelines of the staging area for the parade? You get to see everything and everyone excited and getting ready, but music isn’t playing yet and there isn’t a crowd watching until outside the staging area.

  • VioletteRei@beehaw.orgEnglish
    3·
    2 years ago

    Sadly not a lot, well I have to coming out to my employers this month because of my name change (because anyway they will see that my name is now Lily on the pay), they are probably the last people I want to say it. I also bought a pin to put on my shirts with my name and my pronouns, so that’s also a plus!

    I would love to go to pride, but in my city, there’s no pride. But next year i’m going in a bigger city and I will always celebrate pride there

  • MeowKittyWow@beehaw.orgEnglish
    3·
    2 years ago

    I’m not big on the main parade, but I love the smaller community marches, and make sure to join them if I can. So, Toronto trans march and dyke march, for sure :)

  • Chloyster [she/her]@beehaw.orgEnglish
    3·
    2 years ago

    Going to my first pride! I’ve also been really wanting to meet queer people IRL and am going to be volunteering at my local pride events :)

  • BlueSharkEnjoyer@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    3·
    2 years ago

    I’ll be attending two pride events, hosting a social event for one of the spaces I’m in, and there’s a progress pride flag in my front window.

    Plus all of my usual activism.

  • RitualCaster@beehaw.orgEnglish
    3·
    2 years ago

    I’m playing bass for a production of Kinky Boots if that’s anything. I’m also working up the courage to come out to my close friends.

    • HumbleHobo@beehaw.orgEnglish
      2·
      2 years ago

      I’m trying to do this too, I’m already out to some friends, but I want to come out to my best friend and that’s going to be huge for me.

  • Neotecha (She/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
    3·
    2 years ago

    Orlando is objectively a queer friendly city, but they don’t have any pride events in June.

    There’s an unofficial event each June called “Disney World Gay Days” (not affiliated with Disney themselves, who just treat it like any other summer day), so Orlando moved their pride celebration to October instead. I think it’s understandable, but it always sucks to feel left out from the rest of the queer community.

    I’ve actually have never been to Pride, since other things tend to conflict, and social anxiety in general. This year, I will definitely participate (motivated by the phrase: “Pride is a Protest”). I’ve been “openly queer” for the last 5ish years, but I haven’t been “openly trans”, but I’m taking steps to own that identity, at least more openly. Perhaps people can clock me as trans, but no one ever says anything, so i think I might currently qualify as “stealth”, but I feel like I don’t pass. Just in that weird superposition.

    I have at least one symbolic gesture I want to make this June. I play Women’s Flat Track Roller Derby, and I want to fly the trans flag during my player intro. It’s a very small thing to do, but trans athletics has been under attack, so I feel like choosing to be a visible trans athlete is something i need to do

    • FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.worldEnglish
      0·
      2 years ago

      I’m a derby skater as well, and the only trans athlete I know is a FTM transman who beat out two dozen dudes to make the Team USA Mens team. I’m glad our sport is generally welcoming to a diverse group of people.

      I love the idea of flying a trans flag during your intro.

      • Neotecha (She/her)@beehaw.orgEnglish
        2·
        2 years ago

        I’m glad our sport is generally welcoming to a diverse group of people.

        I know this intellectually, but it’s so difficult for me to internalize that “WFTDA unconditionally welcomes trans skaters”. I’ve just felt like a second-class citizen for most of my derby career, as if “being too good” (i do a lot of cross training to improve my strength and agility, so people on the outside could easily blame me being a strong player on “natural advantages from male puberty”) could push me out of the sport that I’ve pour so much of myself into.

        Over time, my league has grown, and we now have five (!) trans femme or nonbinary skaters. Seeing them being accepted (including a non-medically-transitioning AMAB enby) has really helped my recent mental state related to this

  • Hazelnoot [she/her]@beehaw.orgEnglish
    3·
    2 years ago

    I’m hoping to attend a pride event in-person (I’ve never been to one!) but I’ll have to travel because my city does pride in the fall. Not sure if that will work out :/

    • mooseknee@beehaw.orgEnglish
      2·
      2 years ago

      You live in GA? :P Atlanta pride is some fun, but it is very busy. If you’re looking for something a bit more intimate, Savannah pride has been wonderful when I’ve gone.

  • Zitronenschnitte@feddit.deEnglish
    3·
    2 years ago

    I’m working mostly from home, but when I’m in the office I will always wear some kind of pride shirt this month. Otherwise there is not that much happening, at least in RL. We do not have Pride here, “only” Christopher Street Day but that’s in July. But I plan to attend there (it’s more like a demo, not a parade). Maybe I will finally get in contact with the local queer community. I’m not very social, so I don’t like to attend events alone. But pride month might give me a little push :)

  • ❀ egg ❀@beehaw.orgEnglish
    2·
    2 years ago

    Melbourne has just opened a WLW and neurodivergent-friendly bar, so my girlfriend and I are hoping to get there this pride month!! It’s so exciting to finally have a wlw-dedicated space in Melbourne <3