One of my most hated things in the dying days of Reddit is people having to put the /s because of all the mass down voting from users that didn’t get a post was a joke.

When I came here it seemed that wasn’t the case but I’ve noticed over the last month a lot of users using it or having -28 points for an off the cuff comment.

I might be just be a bit too bothered by the need to use it.

  • Onno (VK6FLAB)@lemmy.radio
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    2 months ago

    The voting behaviour around here is … interesting.

    As for the /s, that’s because of how humans communicate. Most of our context cues are subliminal, facial expression, tone of voice, body language, eye movement, etc. These account for the bulk of the actual message.

    In text based communication like this, those cues are missing entirely. We use emojis and smiley face brackets to give a clue to what is going on.

    Then there’s the language barrier, people come from different countries with different languages, but also different cultural ideas of what’s funny and what isn’t. You can tell when you start looking into swearing for example. The Dutch hurl contagious diseases at each other, the Italians diss each others mother, Australians use body parts.

    Sarcasm is a special form of interaction, straddling truth and disbelief in some way. It’s not universally recognised in the same way since it often triggers off cultural beliefs which vary across the world.

    So, to bring all that together, the simple “/s” shows the reader that sarcasm is intended in a more or less universal way. Of course that too has a cultural impact, but that’s a rabbit hole I’m not going down today.

    • thejoker954@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      I’m not liking the voting system so far on lemmy. I’ve seen too many comments downvoted just because people disagree with the poster’s opinion and not because they are trolling or off topic.

      I’ve see it happen on reddit of course but it seems more prevalent here in the short time I’ve been using it.

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      2 months ago

      Also, I’d venture to guess that a higher concentration of neurospicy individuals exist here than other forums, which may make markup of nonverbal communication more regular.

      Just a hunch though.

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        2 months ago

        Increased rates of neurodivergence on a leftist founded Reddit alternative?

        It’s less “venture to guess” and more “I’d bet my life savings on that being true.”

        Shit. I’m here with ADHD.

        • nickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.org
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          2 months ago

          And I’m here with ADHD and likely somewhere on the to autistic spectrum (not directly diagnosed with the later but have a sibling who is, making it all but certain), along with early childhood trauma fun. And I’m likely one of the less “neurospicy” about.

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    2 months ago

    THE /S IS ALWAYS NECESSARY

    I don’t know how anyone could live through the last decade and not see how important it is to denote when you’re being sarcastic. “It ruins the joke” is preferable over it ruins society. Without the S idiots will read what you wrote and think there’s people out there who actually support their idiotic ideas

  • nickwitha_k (he/him)@lemmy.sdf.org
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    2 months ago

    Tone indicators like /s and even smilies are great for text-based communication. It is extremely easy to misinterpret intent in text as there are no body language or auditory signals to provide context. As someone else stated already, use of tone indicators is good communication, making certain that one’s intent is clearly defined. This is especially helpful for ESL and neurodivergent people who may have increased challenges in ascertaining implicit meaning in a statement or joke.

  • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 months ago

    Tone indicators like /s are vital for neurodivergent people who struggle with understanding people’s intentions, especially over text.

    In addition, you probably underestimate the amount of miscommunication that happens over the internet due to strangers communicating with each other without any tone indicators at all.

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    2 months ago

    Here you are addressing people from all over the world : they have different cultures, backgrounds, perspectives … and some of us didn’t have time to take our first coffee before reading your writings !
    So, be indulgent and take this smallest of efforts to add this "/s” please. I for one will be thankful 😌

  • blargerer@kbin.social
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    2 months ago

    /s is a very old internet thing, not a reddit thing. It can be hard to discern jokes on the internet because we don’t know you and we can’t hear your tone.

  • Resol van Lemmy@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Downvote me all you want, but for the life of me, I never understood what this meant. Even when reading your post, I’m still confused about it.

    And don’t get me started on all the other “letters that succeed a slash” that I have no idea what they mean.

    I’m basically f***ing stupid.

    • Zangoose@lemmy.one
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      2 months ago

      They’re all tone indicators, since you can’t communicate voice tone over text.

      /s stands for sarcasm, sometimes /srs is used for serious, I’m not too sure what the others stand for but those are the most frequently used from what I’ve seen