I’ll start. I have to be careful drinking around other people, because I can get intensely motivational.
My neighbour used to be depressed and stayed at a cruddy job, despite poor pay. I was 17, and he was in his 40s. Well, one night we happened to drink together. It turned out he only stayed at that job in hopes that he would eventually get his parents approval, and that they would finally be proud of him. The job made him miserable.
I spent hours convincing him that he was worth more than his parent’s approval, and that he deserved to be happy. That he was the one living his day-to-day life, and that he should live it how he wants to. Many tears were shed that night. Dude quit before getting any new job prospects, and ended up working in a completely different field. He said thank you more than a few times, after everything was said and done.
That might not sound bad, but it was far from a one-off scenario. I eventually started to wonder what would happen if I accidentally helped lead someone to make a bad decision. It’s not like drunk people are known for making good decisions. So, I only drink around certain people now haha.
On a side note, a crazy number of people have problems with/from their parents.
My eyes blink at different intervals like some Thom Yorke motherfucker.
I will also say more stupid shit.
Edit - added more. I already say stupid shit.
I become an engineering genius . I mean i’m no slouch normally but i will start fixing things for people - and properly
You wake up the next day … “why is there so much duct tape on the fish tank? … Oh no.”
Ah yes - the good ol’ Ballmer Peak.
I’ve known two people who are extremely quiet and shy sober but become loud, social, and “larger than life” when they drink. Like a massive personality change.
Always wondered whether their drunk selves were closer to their “true” selves, but they suppress it in daily life?
I somewhat feel like I’m being addressed here. I can only speak for myself but I’d agree, that this is more like being myself. Yet things/reactions that happened in my childhood/youth are ingrained so deep in my brain, that barriers where formed and the true self is somewhere in there.
Drinking partly breaks down those barriers. Good friends I had for a few years now also helped with this, so around them it became easier being “myself”.
As a shy person, I hope that drunk me isn’t the true me. That guy was an asshole
When I still drank I was very much like this! It’s not that I actively make a point to “suppress” my personality when I’m sober, it’s more like when I would drink every thought that popped into my head suddenly seemed like a great idea lol
If I had to put a name to this phenomenon, I’d say drinking just turns off the common sense filter in my brain
Yeah it’s probably the case. The alcohol sheds their filters and social reservations that other people don’t have at all in the first place. At least I feel like that when I drink. I don’t do parties without a few drinks for that reason.
I become highly suggestive. Up for cocktails later? I’m down. Ask me to buy a pitcher for the table? Consider it done. Start playing the MetalGearSolid theme? I will crawl under tables and hide in cardboard boxes, later ambushing you in the gents where I will punch, kick, and choke you from behind until you climax.
This story started out normal, but ended kinda gay. Hooray for alcohol?
“Metal Gear…”
releases a trouser snakepsycho mantis?
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Oh you’re a nice person.
The only “drunken quirk” so to speak is that when I am drunk I’m very aware of that and that I will go above and beyond not to appear drunk. That’s it. It’s not as wholesome as your story ofc.
I have the exact opposite problem, I end up telling everyone that I’m drunk repeatedly.
I kind of get the urge to talk to a lot of people about it
Yeah, I don’t drink because I’m a seriously happy drunk in a far too gregarious way. It gives off the wrong impression to people, and I can’t back it up with my sober personality. It usually leads to regrets, and I sort of despise overly familiar people in my daily life. I also get adventurous with vehicles and go on side quests in a Hangover movie way that scares me and causes problems. Never again.
When I get drunk, I constantly evaluate how drunk I am and accounce it to everyone around me. You’ll see me stand up to do something, sway a little too much and then declare “okay, I’m at, like, a four.” If I notice I’m getting a little too smashed, I’ll try and slow down or eat some bread or just generally try to take care of myself. Still having fun, though.
I’m flirty, thankful and sometimes say stuff I regret the next day (usually dumb jokes). Pretty good overall.
You did a good thing! alcohol can lower the shields for good or ill. Sometimes it can allow the facade we all carry about different aspects of our perceived selves to fall away and we can truly see what we need to do.
My poor wife if she gets too drunk just cries and cries. She has had such terrible loss in her family her entire life and when she drinks way too much she just sobs almost uncontrollably. It’s terrible. Because she remembers her brother, her dad, her grandpa, all gone tragically. She hasnt done that in a few years because we are getting older and drunk stupidly less but it was a thing for awhile.
Alcohol is weird man.
I can’t remember
I have the most embarrassing quirk when I drink. I get super emotional and start giving out hugs to people I would never hug sober.
As long as you’re not forceful about it and can take a hint, everyone could use a couple extra hugs in life in my experience.
I used to do the same thing when I first started drinking. Now drinking just makes me slightly more open but also gives me a headache (even after 1 beer)
That neighbor being in that situation at 40 sounds miserable - at least they were able to find some happiness thanks to you though 👌.
Pretty valid concern there about someone possibly making a bad decision based from advice when drunk… seems risky depending on where the other individual is/feels regarding life
When I’m drunk I ask stupid questions and that’s it really 😂 things I usually keep to myself are all asked without any care in the world. Almost like the filter is removed
I’m the apologetic drunk. I am SO sorry to everyone. Usually apologizing for being drunk or just my existence in general. Also, before I get to that point, I usually test to see if I feel (or don’t feel?) my teeth.
Mine was that I don’t get hangovers pretty much at all so I never had an internal sense of “I’m going to feel like shit tomorrow if I keep going”. Anyway I don’t drink anymore and my body and relationships thank me.
I liked to text my coworkers pictures of my cats.
It got to be a bit much, and started to be referred to as me getting drunk and sending pussy pics.
I haven’t sent one in months :( kind of miss it lol
I lose all filters and chaos mode engages. If I see a button I push it, if something takes one little nudge for it to fall over I nudge it, pranks, fire, just any kind of chaos you can think of. It’s especially prevalent if I’m drinking Jager.
